How to Introduce Sex Toys to your Partner
Want to give things a bit of a boost in the boudoir? Make your together time (or alone time) a little saucier, sexier and satisfactory? As we age, the spark of sex may have waned. Blame children, jobs, economic stress, whatever the cause, it’s time to reconnect and make time for sex a priority again. Today’s sex toys and vibrators are designed for more gratifying, sensual fun experience.
How do you get your partner to sign on?
Men and women become aroused at different speeds. Most women arouse much slower than men and need more stimulation and attention. A combination of touch, stimulation and a vibrator can help you both become aroused together and achieve greater orgasms.
Yasmine’s Room is all about love, pleasure and well-being! We’ve put together some simple tips on how to introduce sex toys into the bedroom.
1. Talk, talk sexy, but talk!
Communication is key. Get comfortable talking about sex with your partner. Start having pillow talk conversations about your sex life, what you like, your interests and desires. Find out about their desires. Assure them that you love your sex life, and a little extra sizzle in the sheets can only enhance your time together. Introduce the idea of a toy, and the fun that could be had. Remind them that a toy could never replace their touch and loving gaze. And of course, vibrators can’t cuddle or kiss.
2. Get curious!
Another way to introduce toys into the bedroom, is discuss an article (like this one) that is about enhancing your sex life. You’re curious, are they? Today’s sex toys come in a variety of shapes, sizes and capabilities. Introduce a toy that is not intimidating, and does not look like a penis like the Lelo Lily 2. It’s not about size and performance, but about added sensations and satisfaction that you can enjoy together.
Do they have a move that you like? Ask them to experiment on you with the toy. What would the sensations be like with some added lubrication and vibration? Your reaction, moans and sighs will entice them to continue exploring!
You can shop with them for a toy that can be used together. The Je Joue Mio is designed to be used during intercourse. Providing extra stimulation and sensations for both partners!
Find yourself alone at home with a few minutes to spare? Take some time for yourself, get curious and explore what makes your body sing! Sexual well-being is an important part of holistic wellness. Take a few minutes every week to reconnect with yourself and your body. Having an orgasm is the natural way to increase endorphins, reduce stress, and relax. Happy women make for happier families, and better relationships.
3. It’s all in the fingertips
Touch is one of the most important senses, and one of the first things to fall by the wayside between couples. To spice up a dull evening just add touch, massage and vibration. Start with a luxury, aromatic massage oil like Kama Sutra Massage Coconut Pineapple (other varieties available). The aroma of the massage oil will help release stress, tension and inhibitions. Add to your massage with a personal massager. Dame’s FIN is a massager worn between the fingers. It can provide pinpoint stimulation. You can have fun all night experimenting!
Take your time, explore and have fun. Check in often with your partner when using a new toy. Ask them “Is this good for you? Do you like it when I do this?” Communicate, touch, relax and have fun. Isn’t that what sex is about?